Ladies have you ever wondered why he keeps late nights frequently, hanging with friends instead of you? Why he hardly spends time with you? Most times we put all the blame on him, forgetting that we may also be the reason for this negative attitude.
RESPECT
From careful study, I discovered that most men (African men especially) will never exchange respect for anything in the world, irrespective of their financial or physical status. Yeah, they value respect so much. As a lady, if you respect your man's feeling and avoids treating or talking to him disrespectfully just watch him love you even more.
CARE
Most females make the mistake of believing that care is only meant for a female. From my research I discovered that menfolk loves care same way a baby loves care and attention. No matter the number of children you have that's occupying your attention, you should schedule your time properly, so as to give your man the care and attention he deserves. Sometimes, treat him like a baby. What happen to sweet words like: I love you my baby. Watch out for him, his dressing and his looks. Make him feel really cared for. Trust me, even when he's out of the house he will always have you in mind and will look for every opportunity to be with you.
HUMILITY
Another quality that will endear your man to you is humility. Men generally, irrespective of their financial status, like their women to be humble. Make him understand that he is your head, by your submissive attitude. Don't take decisions without consulting him first. Follow his instructions and if there is any reason you can't follow a particular instruction, humbly make him see reasons why such decision may be faulty, Yeah, he deserves that because even God wants you(the woman) to give him such submission. This will make him go head over heels with you. Even when he misbehaves, he will never forget you, trust me.
DECENCY
Another way to make him love you more is your decency. If you always keep yourself clean, he will always want to be close to you. No man will ever stay close to a woman who is not neat(your hair, whole body and clothing). Ensure that the home is always neat with captivating fragrance, your bedroom inclusive. This will always bring him back home. Don't fail too, to stay in shape despite the number of children you've had. This will make him become more attractive to you. Its even good for your health anyway.
To be continued. . .
